💜 Hello! I'm Bess McCarty. I created and trademarked a simple 4 step process called Real Conversations. For 30 years now, it has helped many hundreds of people solve problems FAST.

💜 It began when I noticed how I help myself and my clients move quickly from pain to solution in 4 simple steps: identify the problem, emotion, need, and solution!

💜 I discovered that a problem is simply a sign of an unmet need. Discover the need, and meet it in a healthy way, and the problem disappears!!

💜As one person said: “I love when my problems turn into interesting puzzles to solve, and my unhappiness becomes a challenge for my creativity, and my pain turns into a springboard of adventure!” That feels pretty good! And so freeing!

💜 Because we all face problems, don’t we? Big ones! We long for relief, to understand and solve them. To feel better and be happy. To live better lives! We long for the freedom that is just on the other side!  

“I recently joined Bess McCarty’s Real Conversations Class. I’ve done a lot of programs, classes, coaching and even therapy in my life, and yet last night I got a new understanding of the cause of my problem and what to do about it.I have to say I was pleasantly surprised – wowed even – by the attention, insight and skilled coaching that Bess gives to each and every student. She is sparkly and has a lot of depth. I am absolutely certain that this investment in myself will pay off in huge dividends.” – Maria Meiners

"This work with Bess is powerfully effective. If you truly desire to get to the root of the unseen drivers of the patterns running your life (or maybe wrecking your life) this is the most direct method I’ve come across. I have used several other methods, and this is the one I recommend first to anyone willing to take responsibility for their own life and engage the inner work of self -understanding.“ - John Sweat